Self-Assessment for Problematic Sexual Behavior

An invitation to honesty, healing, and freedom

Every one of us is called to live with integrity in our relationships, our ministry, and our private life. Yet for many, sexual struggle and secrecy can become a source of deep shame and isolation. The truth is—you’re not alone, and you’re not beyond hope.

This self-assessment is designed to help you take an honest look at your sexual behavior and identify potential areas of concern. It’s not about judgment or labels—it’s about awareness. Healing begins when we bring truth into the light and allow Christ to meet us there with grace and transformation.

Please take a few quiet moments to reflect on each question below. Answer as honestly as you can. If the questions stir discomfort or conviction, take that as an invitation—not condemnation.

If your responses reveal patterns that concern you, consider this a holy nudge toward help. Reaching out for support is not weakness; it’s courage. There are safe, confidential spaces available for you—through therapy, support groups, and spiritual direction.

You can begin by reaching out to Rev. Chris Goers at 214-668-7896 or chris@chrisgoers.com.

Your journey toward freedom begins with one step of truth.